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When Love Hurts: Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse
Elizabeth Hirata Elizabeth Hirata

When Love Hurts: Recovering from Narcissistic Abuse

It seemed like a fairy tale at first. He was charming and charismatic, texting and calling constantly to compliment you, or just to see how your day was going. He even told you he loved you within weeks of dating, which no one had ever done! You feel special, desired, beautiful, and life is exciting and passionate. Roses show up at work for all your coworkers to see, and he drops off dinner at work for you when he knows you have to work late. He’s more thoughtful and romantic than any other guy you’ve dated. So exciting! You’re in love!

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Why Women Stay in Abusive Relationships
Elizabeth Hirata Elizabeth Hirata

Why Women Stay in Abusive Relationships

Domestic violence is a real problem not just in the United States, but around the world. Statistics are showing that in the US alone 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men are victims of domestic violence, and over 10,000,000 people are affected by this type of abuse each year. While men are also victims of relationship violence, this article addresses issues around why women stay in these destructive relationships when their lives and often the lives of their children are in danger, and what factors make it so hard for them to leave their abuser?

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Are You Living with a Partner Suffering with PTSD after Sexual Abuse?
Elizabeth Hirata Elizabeth Hirata

Are You Living with a Partner Suffering with PTSD after Sexual Abuse?

Living with a person who has been sexually abused is hard! The abuse survivor often struggles with triggers he or she doesn't understand, making him or her overly reactive and difficult to live with. While your partner needs help from a professional, the truth is both partners need support.

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Taking Care of your Relationships During a Pandemic
Elizabeth Hirata Elizabeth Hirata

Taking Care of your Relationships During a Pandemic

The COVID-19 Pandemic has taken the world by storm, wreaking havoc on many American families.

The frustration and disappointment of the new “normal” can cause discord in the home.

So, how can we take care of our relationships during these stressful, scary, uncertain times?

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